On growth

So, when I was twenty one, I was in the middle of a separation that would end in divorce, in the middle of a custody battle, in the middle of not knowing anything about myself, really.  I knew what I believed: I believed I knew what love was, I was agnostic and regularly attended church; … Continue reading On growth

On Rape culture in our parliament and in our homes. *TRIGGER WARNING* references rape and the silencing of rape victims.

This week, in New Zealand, we have a moment of truth presenting itself.  The back story is long and complex. As these things so often are in politics, it is a distraction from a main event.  The shiny paper keeping everyone's attention over here. The dead cat thrown on the table to distract from a … Continue reading On Rape culture in our parliament and in our homes. *TRIGGER WARNING* references rape and the silencing of rape victims.